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By R. MUNIDASA WINSLOW
THE recent decision to build two Integrated
Resorts in Singapore by the Government has drawn a wide range
of responses from enthusiasm to numbed disbelief and anger that
this could be happening in Singapore. One thing for certain, it
has drawn attention to the issue of addictions as never before.
When I first started work with addictions in 1991, they fascinated
me. The power in addictions to change people and lives was tremendous,
and their destructive power awesome. The amazing changes in the
individual and their family that took place when someone decided
to do something about an addiction also motivated me to stick
with treatment of this difficult group.
Despite this, the medical fraternity still does not teach much
about addictions in its curriculum, and it remains a hazy topic
to most.
What is use, abuse, dependence and addiction?
There is a fair amount of fuzziness in most people's minds about
this. When I first started work with addictions, I thought that
there needed to be a substance, like tobacco, alcohol or heroin
for people to get addicted. Now our thinking has developed, and
we realise that behaviours and processes like gambling and even
the Internet can also take on the features of an addiction.
Being brought up in Singapore with its strict drug laws, I used
to equate drug use with an addiction. I don't do that any longer.
It is not just the drug! There is a spectrum of use and behaviours
which extends from occasional use to eventual addiction. If this
were not so, every post-operative patient who gets morphine or
other opiate-based drugs for pain relief would be an addict.
It is true that some drugs like nicotine and heroin can rapidly
lead to neuroadaptation (i.e. the development of tolerance and
withdrawal symptoms) and thus are physically more likely to cause
dependence. This gives them a higher addictive potential. However,
not all who use a drug like morphine misuse it. There would appear
to be many factors, both intrinsic (like our genetic make-up,
family of origin etc) and extrinsic (like our belief system, our
jobs and friends), which can predispose to the development of
an addiction.
In the field of addiction medicine, we now know that there are
many changes that take place when a person gets addicted to a
behaviour or substance. There are actual brain changes, where
most research points to stimulation and changes in our brains
reward systems. (The brains reward system is important and allows
us to experience pleasure and emotions, e.g. after a good meal,
or a challenging sermon.) The brain chemical transmitter implicated
in most behaviour and substance addictions is dopamine.
There are also a lot of social conditions under which addictions
flourish. This is why societies vary a lot in the type and magnitude
of their addictions. There are also racial and cultural factors
which predispose different groups to different forms of addiction.
Addictions - Moral weakness or illness?
If Christians are to be effective in resisting the pervasive erosion
of our social values and reach out with a counter-culture life,
we need to understand the nature of addiction.
Addiction has tended to be associated with a lack of willpower
and determination. But in recent years with the help of Alcoholics
Anonymous, addiction is beginning to be taken seriously by the
medical fraternity as a pathological illness where a distinct
personality is seen to have developed and takes over the life
of an addict. So addiction is not merely an abuse of an object
like heroin.
An addict is someone whose obsessive emotional dependence on the
object has so consumed him or her that he or she loses his or
her identity in it. It's like the saying, "Some people eat
to live; some people live to eat." In the case of the addict,
it is the latter. The gambling addict only lives when she gambles.
For her gambling is not an entertainment, it is being alive.
ENSLAVEMENT
OF SIN
'Addictions are symptoms of the enslavement of sin and evil in
a man. Christians are the good news that the bondage can be broken
with a new creation in Christ.'
Christian experience allows us
to identify with addiction
How does addiction begin?
Psychological theories tend to see addiction as rooted in our
fundamental need for intimacy. Intimacy is the desire to meaningful
relationship with people that nurtures our inner being. In infancy,
intimacy need is understood in terms of pleasure and pain, i.e.,
the mother's presence that meant suckle and comfort, and her absence,
which conjured fear of abandonment. This movement of presence
and absence teaches the very basic human relationship of trust.
We learn to trust and distrust people through the primal feedback
of pleasure and pain. But the process is so fragile and fraught
with dangers that this foundation of trust is distorted, even
perverted.
For example, the baby feels hungry, cries (pain) and gets milk
and cuddles from mother (pleasure). This pattern is repeated through
the growing years in learning to relate to family, self and community.
Intermittently, we also learnt to relate to objects that could
provide substitute sources of pleasure and comfort in the absence
of mom.
So for example, children can be given a pacifier, a bolster, TV,
etc. We begin to associate pleasure or emotional well-being with
everyday objects that are available to us. As the child develops,
she grows out of the pacifier but the child has already learnt
that objects are more predictable and stable in providing emotional
pleasure than people. People can love but they also can punish.
As a result the child also learnt how to promote pleasure and
avoid pain in human relationships.
As the child grows older she learns to transfer this emotional
dependency from the pacifier to an appropriate object or activity
like excelling in school or sports to get the intimacy needs met.
Some develop hatred for studying languages like Mandarin because
of the stress and pain emotions associated with the subject.
We also often find that a student loves a particular subject because
of her teacher's passion. Another student hates the same subject
because she feels stupid and inadequate. The tragedy is that the
student will embrace this negative feeling to define her self,
which says, "I am stupid" instead of "I have a
problem with Chinese studies".
This inevitably leads to self-rejection and results in withdrawal
from others, which is a breakdown of cultivating healthy intimate
human relationships. Under such stress, she will turn to a substitute
object for comfort. She thus becomes a candidate for addiction.
Thus addiction has its root in the fundamental human need for
intimacy. Just as the object of addiction gives emotional highs
in terms of arousal and satiation, so does an infant to the presence
of the mother. Stresses and losses in life trigger such regressions.
For example, when faced with stress or loss, people turn to a
particular food or place for comfort. It can be "yew char
kuay" or the "teh tarek" but we turn to them for
comfort because they bring back the feelings of security and happiness
associated with them in yesteryears.
A person is an addict when she becomes obsessively dependent
on the object or event so much so that she must shop, as in the
case of a shopaholic, or else depression and distress overwhelm
her. Shopping changes her mood and emotional state of being. It's
no longer the buying or even the shopping but the emotional high
that is being sought to be repeated.
We live in a "look cool, feel good" society in Singapore.
It's not good enough just to have a pair of running shoes. They
must be a branded one, not just for recognition but to actually
"feel good". While we innocuously call this a "consumer"
society, the real implication is that we are promoting addiction,
where things, activities, events and even people and God are treated
as objects to feed our emotional dependency. The idea is that
consumers consume but ironically the consumption consumes even
the consumer.
In other words, the addict is sick because her pathology now reduces
people into the obsession itself, including herself. Look at any
addicted person, they do not look after themselves well, just
their obsession. For this reason, addiction must be rejected as
a lifestyle precisely because it destroys people around the addict
and ultimately consumes the addict herself.
Finally addiction is an illness because the cure of an addict
involves nothing short of a profound change of personality in
the core of the person. As Craig Nakken in his book The Addictive
Personality (p.27) succinctly puts it,
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recovery is not a return to a healthier self, but
a need to develop a new personality." This is because the
addict has first to acknowledge the addictive personality inside
her. Then she can decide to break not just the obsession with
the object but with this personality also. That is why the addict
needs a community of supportive relationships and a belief in
a Higher Power (in our case, God).
The Alcoholics Anonymous 12-step programme for recovery teaches
many Christ-based spiritual truths, which are helpful to general
recovery for all addictions. The 12-step programmes are essentially
spiritual programmes for recovery, which teach values (eg honesty,
open-mindedness) that are essential for change to occur. All 12-step
programmes also teach the need for a higher power in our lives.
Challenge: Overcoming and being new creations
The message of the Gospel of Jesus Christ
is critical precisely because sin has so damaged man that he needs
to be reborn (John 3:3). Christians are a new creation created
by Christ through His Cross. There is no other way. In God's judgment,
sin can only be dealt with through death. The resurrection of
Christ opened a new life in a new world beyond death in this life.
We can immediately see the relevance of Christ as the Hope and
Healer for addicts.
We do not just treat the behaviour or addiction, but we target
the person and in Christ offer a new personhood. This is not far
from our own experience as saved sinners. In our daily Christian
lives, we constantly struggle with the desires of the flesh that
war against the Spirit of God that dwells in us (Gal 5:19-24).
When we sin we are enslaved to sin just like addiction which leads
to death and destruction but setting our minds in the Spirit leads
us to life and peace (Rom 8:6). In other words, our Christian
experience allows us to identify with addiction sufferers. If
we humble ourselves and are honest, we can reach out with compassion
and model the new personality that Christ has given us.
Addictions are symptoms of the enslavement of sin and evil in
a man. Christians are the good news that the bondage can be broken
with a new creation in Christ.
Dr R. Munidasa Winslow is Head and Consultant Psychiatrist as well as Director and Senior Consultant at the Institute of Mental Health.